For the girls.

Ten years ago today, I went through a tough time. Okay, that’s a bit of an understatement, but you know what I mean.  I don’t hide my experience from people, in fact, almost the opposite—I often blurt it out at an unexpected moment, shocking both of us. It often results in stunned silence, followed by […]


Love at first swipe

Online dating is like walking through a minefield; you know you’re going to step on a doozy but you don’t know when it’s going to happen so you just put your foot down and hope for the best. It has been three years since I tried online dating and based on that experience, I decided […]


I am enough.

“You’ll make a beautiful bride.” With this one sentence I found myself caught like a deer in the headlights, en route to an unnecessary—and somewhat misguided—reality check from a stranger. While you might think it sounds like a compliment, a backhand quickly followed. After dishing out advice on what NOT to wear if I walk […]